What to Wear for Your Courthouse Wedding as the Bride and Groom
Your courthouse wedding is in a few weeks, and you are wondering what you will be wearing. A traditional white dress? A fancy evening gown with a high side slit and the heels you’ve always dreamed of? Can you be sexy? Should you cover up out of respect for the law office? What about guests? If you’re invited as a guest, how should you dress? How can you make sure you look polished without feeling overdone?
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1. What Is a Courthouse Wedding?

A courthouse wedding (also called a civil marriage ceremony) takes place in a government building (county courthouse or city hall) rather than in a religious or private venue. An authorized official (judge, justice of the peace, or court administrator) leads the ceremony. Couples choose this option for its simplicity, affordability and minimal planning, with no need for elaborate décor or a large guest list.
2. Courthouse Weddings in Minnesota

In Minnesota, civil ceremonies are offered at any county courthouse or select government centers. In Minneapolis, it’s the Hennepin County Courthouse. In Saint Paul, it’s the Saint Paul City Hall & Ramsey County Courthouse, and in Rochester, the Olmsted County Government Center.
Under state law, several officials may solemnize marriages. Most facilities hold appointment‑only ceremonies Monday through Friday, lasting 10–15 minutes and requiring two witnesses. The courtrooms have some seats to welcome a few family members.
The lear more about Courthouse Wedding, check our Guide to get married at the Rochester Government Center.
3. How to dress for Woman? All-White Style Options: Dresses, Skirts & Jumpsuits?



Despite it’s not a religious ceremony, many women like to follow the tradition of the white color (traditionally symbol of purity). Today, in a courthouse wedding, it’s more of a social code that distinguishes the bride from all other guests.
So, whether you prefer a short mini dress or a long maxi skirt, a modern tailored jumpsuit or a workwear-inspired ensemble, an all-white outfit offers endless possibilities:
- Modern: Sleek sheath dresses or minimalist maxi skirts
- Dynamic: Structured jumpsuits with architectural details
- Workwear-Inspired: Crisp shirtdresses or tailored trousers with vests
- Romantic: Lace skirts or flowing chiffon dresses
- Dramatic: High-low hems, exaggerated sleeves or bold cutouts
- Chic & Elegant: Tailored pencil skirts or straight-leg jumpsuits
- Vintage: Tea-length lace dresses or retro pleated skirts
- Minimalist: Clean-cut slip dresses or column gowns with subtle sheen
- Glamorous: Embellished mini dresses or sequined skirts with bold silhouettes
- Preppy: Crisp A-line skirts paired with crisp collars or bow-tie blouses
- Bohemian White: Crochet maxi dresses, off-the-shoulder tops and layered lace details
- Edgy Modern: White leather jackets over pleated skirts or asymmetrical hemlines
- Casual Chic: White culottes with a fitted tee and lightweight blazer
Do women need to wear a white dress to your wedding?
No. If white is a traditional color, you can totally wear a white outfit with a touch of color, or a completely colorful outfit. In the past decades, we have even seen some designers creating colorful dresses like this one.
Note that shoes, hats, and bracelets are the main accessories.

How to dress for a man at a Courthouse Wedding?
Options for men are much simpler and mainly involve subtle choices in suit design (tuxedo, lounge suit, dress suit, formal suit), the cut itself, the material (tweed, wool, cotton), and accessories (tie, bow tie, belt, and pocket square). Some prefer to keep it simple without a jacket. You can also experiment with different colors.
Some grooms would wear only a shirt, or just nice pants and a Blazer.
For a touch of originality and humor, men would often favor accessories: red sneakers, funny designs on the cuffs, or ties.
Finally, you can totally play the cultural card. For instance, if you have an ancestor from Scotland, you could wear a Kilt. If you have an ancestor from Africa, wear an African outfit.

4. Five Peak Signature Outfit Themes for Your Civil Marriage
Further that simply picking a dress, you can also think of a theme for you and your partner. Consider these signature themes to define your courthouse look. Mix and match elements to make them uniquely yours:
- Classic White & Traditional: A simple white gown with minimal embellishment, paired with a dark suit or tuxedo for him.
- Chic & Elegant: Smooth fabrics like satin or silk in refined cuts with understated accessories.
- Artistic & Bohemian: Flowing lace or textured separates with layered jewelry and boots.
- Modern & Relaxed: Clean lines, minimalist shapes and casual‑dress footwear.
- Vintage Romantic: Tea‑length lace or tweed with retro‑style touches.
The Classic White & Traditional:
For her: Ladies, you are totally allowed to dare to wear the white wedding gown that you have always dreamed of. It could be very traditional, your mother’s one, or a completely modern design.
For Him: Gentlemen, a simple black (or dark) suit would work great. Plus, you could possibly use it again in the future. If you are more extravagant, you can opt for the tuxedos you have always dreamed of.

Chic & Elegant
For Her: A sophisticated cocktail dress (robe de soirée) in a luxurious fabric like silk or satin, a chic jumpsuit, or a tailored pantsuit. Pair with elegant heels, delicate jewelry, and a stylish clutch.
For Him: A sharp, well-fitted dark suit (navy, charcoal, or black) with a white shirt, a tie (silk or knitted), and polished dress shoes. Consider a pocket square for an extra touch of flair.
This look is perfect for a celebratory dinner (at the BlueDuck, or maybe a more VIP location out of town?).






Classic & Formal
For Her: A timeless knee-length or midi-length dress in white, ivory, a soft pastel, or a classic solid color. A tailored blazer or a structured coat can complete the look. Opt for classic pumps or elegant flats and minimal jewelry.
For Him: A two-piece suit in a lighter shade (like light grey, tan, or even a light blue) or smart trousers paired with a shirt, and dress shoes. A tie is optional for a slightly more formal event.
This option offers traditional elegance without being overly sophisticated.






Artistic & Bohemian
For Her: A flowy lace dress, a pretty midi skirt paired with a delicate top, or a chic wide-leg pant and a peasant blouse. Accessorize with a stylish wide-brimmed hat, ankle boots or block heels, and natural, layered jewelry.
For Him: Linen trousers or chinos paired with a crisp, unbuttoned-collar shirt (perhaps linen or a soft cotton), suspenders, or a light-colored, deconstructed blazer. Loafers or stylish desert boots would complement this look.





Modern & Relaxed
For her: Think sleek jumpsuits or tailored wide-leg pants paired with a contemporary blouse. A midi dress with clean lines and interesting details also works beautifully. Finish the look with block heels or stylish flats, minimal yet striking jewelry, and a structured crossbody bag.
For him: Opt for slim-fit chinos or wool trousers with a well-fitted, untucked button-down shirt (consider subtle patterns or rich textures). A modern knit blazer or a smart bomber jacket can add a sophisticated layer. Complete the ensemble with clean leather sneakers or smart loafers.





Vintage Romantic
This is a pretty creative theme that you can apply to many decades!






The Too Casual Style to Avoid
For both him and her, steer clear of anything too casual like athletic wear, t-shirts, or excessively distressed denim. Stains, tears, holes, or faded fabrics are definite no-gos, as are worn-out or ill-fitting pieces.
Opting for something overly informal like flip-flops or sneakers (unless part of a very intentionally styled, clean, modern look) is also best avoided. The goal is polished and respectful, not sloppy or neglected.

5. How to Dress for a Minnesota Winter Courthouse Wedding on a Cold Day
Minnesota winters are cold. And if you want a few pictures outside, you will want a warm, photogenic outfits that stand out against snow‑driven landscapes.
You can consider:


1. Tailored Coat and Midi Dress Choose a wool or wool‑blend wrap coat over a knit midi dress, finished with insulated boots and warm hosiery.
2. Elegant Outer Cape and Jumpsuit Drape a structured wool cape over a sleek jumpsuit and pair with weather‑resistant ankle boots.
In all cases, you would need a warm coat (fur, synthetic fur, Trench Coat), gloves, and boots (regular boots work for the city, but winter boots are needed if you want to walk in the snow).
6. Outfit Ideas for Same‑Sex Couples

In recent years, wedding fashion for same‑sex couples has embraced bold colors, mix‑and‑match textures, and sustainable practices. Key trends include velvet jackets, pastel‑toned suiting, and coordinated yet individual looks.
For custom service (recommended), consider local clothiers in Minneapolis and St. Paul.
6.1. Gay Men Couples
- Coordinate matching suits with accent pieces such as colorful ties or pocket accents.
- Same color suits work, such as complementary colors (ex, red and blue).
- Finish with sleek boots or dress shoes.

6.2. Lesbian Couples
- Depending on whether you are Queer or not, opt for a dress or a more masculine outfit.
- Mix tailored separates (such as a tuxedo‑inspired jacket with textured trousers) or combine dress and jacket variants.
- Complete with block heels or lace‑up flats.

6.3 Should you match your partner’s outfit?
That’s an interesting question. A matching suit or a matching dress works great. But you can also decide to go with a different material, color, or design.
Having a matching outfit can be seen as something you do together, as a team, while having different outfits can be considered the union of two individuals with different tastes.

6.4. Recent Trends in LGBT+ Fashion Media
Leading LGBT+ blogs and magazines are highlighting gender‑fluid tailoring, bold color‑blocking, sustainable customization, statement accessories, and mix‑and‑match couple looks.

7. Styles to Avoid for Photography
The most important thing is that you love what you wear. That being said, as a wedding photographer, my recommendation to you is to avoid logos and big patterns that distract too much from the attention. In sum, follow the same recommendation that is in our guide to select your engagement session outfits: coordinate colors.
Steer clear of athletic wear, T‑shirts, heavily distressed denim, stains, tears, or faded items, and overly casual footwear (flip‑flops, worn‑out sneakers). Aim for polished, respectful attire.
8. How to Dress for Guests at a Courthouse Wedding

The guest attire should match the couple’s style and post‑ceremony plans (if any).
Dress up for formal receptions and choose casual‑elegant pieces for relaxed venues.
8.1. Ideas of outfit gor guests for a Formal & Fancy Reception
Women: Cocktail dress or tailored skirt suit with heels and minimal accessories. Men: Dark suit, dress shirt and polished dress shoes.
8.2. Ideas of outfit gor guests for a Smart Casual Reception
Women: Wrap or midi dress with flats or low heels. Men: Blazer with chinos or dress trousers and loafers or clean sneakers.
8.3. Ideas of outfit gor guests for a Relaxed Casual Reception
Women: Trousers with a blouse or knit dress and flats or ankle boots. Men: Dark jeans or chinos with a button‑down and casual jacket; sneakers or desert boots.
8.4. How to Ensure You’re Not Overdressed
There is this amazing new sexy evening dress with sparklers that you crave to wear. But…you would just attract too much attention compared to the other guests?
- Check the invitation for dress code hints. Is there a typographic style?
- Visit the couple’s wedding website.
- Consider the reception venue: is it the most fancy bar restaurant in town, or the local legion bar?
- If you are unsure, simply ask the bride and groom.
Note: Women guests should never wear white, so the couple remains the focus.
9. Where to Shop for Your Courthouse Wedding Outfit in Rochester & Iowa
When shopping for your outfit, consider two things: budget (courthouse weddings are usually on a lower budget, which means ready-made clothes) and time ( a tailored maid dress takes some time).
For information, the average price of a tailor-made wedding dress is around $3,000 to $5,000 and takes around 4-6 months.. With high-end designers, it can reach $10,000 or more. The average price of a suit for tailors is between $900 and $3000, but it can be higher for luxury brands, and takes about 2-8 weeks.
Whether you’re shopping locally in Rochester, MN, crossing into the Twin Cities, or heading to eastern Iowa, these boutiques and clothiers offer tailored, ready‑to‑wear, and custom options:
Shop in Rochester, MN
- Macy & Windsor & Torrid. Those 2 shops are located in Apache Mall, offer event‑ready dresses and formal separates.
- Macy, also located in Apache Mall, offers classic brands such as Ralph Lauren, Chanel, and Yves Saint Laurent.
- ELL Boutique, located in Mayo Clinic – curated women’s dresses and accessories
- Finery Bridal Chic: It’s a Bridal shop offering designers’ dresses. Some are suitable for civil Marriage.
- The White Rose Bridal & Formal Wear: Located in St Charles, they have a LOT of choice, including modern white dresses that would work for a civil wedding.
- Mansawear, located on the second floor of the University Square building, offers custom garments with vibrant fabrics for men.
- Men’s Wearhouse, located in AppacheMal, offers Men’s clothes.
Unfortunately, the number of shops for classy brands is quite limited in Rochester, so you might need to go to the Twin Cities.
If you have the time and the budget, consider a Tailor for your suit or dress.
Trester Tailor – expert custom tailoring and alterations for gowns, suits, and separates.
Anders Tailor – expert in women’s and men’s outfits for weddings.
Shops in Minneapolis & Twin Cities
- Nordstrom Rack: Located at the Mall of America, they offer many affordable pret-a-porter brands, such as Calvin Klein, Maggy London, By Design, DKNY.
- The White Room: A local Bridal Shop, with tons of options.
- Tom James of Minneapolis: High-end clothing store in Eden Prairie, not specialized in weddings, so perfect for modern outfits (for women and men).
- Budget Bridal Outlet: Birdal Shop located in Osseo, MN. As mentioned by the name, they are focused on affordable prices. They a few simple white wedding dresses that can work.
- My Darling Bridal: They have some brands on the very modern side, such as Pronovias.
- Indochio- Mall of America: Quick custom-made suit with fancy design and decent price.
- Heimie’s Haberdashery in Saint Paul, MN: Traditional men’s suits & accessories in an old-fashioned setting. The best of the best!
- Top Shelf: Old-fashioned Custom Suit.
- King Brothers Clothiers: Men’s Clothes.
Shop in Chicago, IL
I am quite sure there are many more good shops in Chicago, I have listed only, because that’s a brand that I especially value.
- Carolina Herreira, Located in Chicago. It offers wearable fashion clothes.
Shops at Cedar Rapids, IA
- Embody Bridal – bridal gowns and alteration services
- Heart to Heart Bridal – curated wedding dress selection
- An Elegant Affair – from short to long dresses
Shop Online & Nationwide
You can also consider shopping. Be aware that some designers offer a special outfit for a courthouse wedding. Let’s think of Jenny Yoo, Reformation, or Danielle Frankel, just to name a few. Elie Saab & Vivienne Westwood are two modern designers. They have shops on the East and West Coasts, but not in the Midwest. Luckily, the internet exists.
For ethically produced wardrobe staples, consider brands like Everlane, Pact, Girlfriend Collective, Reformation, Kotn, and ABLE.
Finally, a last option is to rent your dress online. I won’t make a long list, but some companies, such as Rent the Runway and Janet Mandell, give you the option to rent some fashion dresses.
10. Courthouse Wedding Attire FAQ
Basic Questions
Q: What is a courthouse wedding? A: A courthouse wedding (civil marriage ceremony) takes place in a government building like a county courthouse or city hall, officiated by a judge, justice of the peace, or court administrator. It’s chosen for its simplicity, affordability, and minimal planning requirements.
Q: How long does a courthouse wedding ceremony last? A: Most courthouse ceremonies last 10-15 minutes and are held by appointment only, Monday through Friday.
Q: Do I need witnesses for a courthouse wedding in Minnesota? A: Yes, Minnesota requires two witnesses for courthouse ceremonies.
Attire for the Bride
Q: Can I wear a traditional white wedding dress to a courthouse wedding? A: Absolutely! Many brides choose to wear white as it’s a social code that distinguishes the bride from guests, whether it’s a mini dress, maxi skirt, or tailored jumpsuit.
Q: What are the best style themes for a courthouse bride? A: Popular themes include:
- Classic White & Traditional
- Chic & Elegant (cocktail dresses in silk/satin)
- Artistic & Bohemian (flowy lace, layered jewelry)
- Modern & Relaxed (clean lines, minimalist shapes)
- Vintage Romantic (tea-length lace, retro touches)
Q: What should I avoid wearing as a bride? A: Avoid athletic wear, t-shirts, heavily distressed denim, anything with stains/tears, flip-flops, or overly casual footwear. The goal is polished and respectful attire.
Attire for the Groom
Q: What should the groom wear to a courthouse wedding? A: Options include:
- A simple black or dark suit (reusable for future occasions)
- A tuxedo for more formal celebrations
- Smart trousers with a dress shirt for casual-elegant looks
- Linen trousers or chinos with unbuttoned collar shirts for bohemian styles
Winter Considerations
Q: How should I dress for a Minnesota winter courthouse wedding? A: Consider:
- Tailored wool coat over a knit midi dress with insulated boots
- Structured wool cape over a jumpsuit with weather-resistant boots
- Always include warm accessories: gloves, winter boots, and warm hosiery
Q: What if I want outdoor photos in winter? A: Choose warm, photogenic outfits that stand out against snow. Layer appropriately and consider bringing backup shoes for walking in snow.
Same-Sex Couples
Q: How should same-sex couples coordinate their outfits? A: Options include:
- Matching suits with accent pieces (colorful ties, pocket squares)
- Complementary colors (red and blue suits)
- Mix of tailored separates
- One partner in a dress, the other in a suit
- You can match completely or embrace individual styles
Guest Attire
Q: How should guests dress for a courthouse wedding? A: Match the couple’s style and post-ceremony plans:
- Formal reception: Cocktail dress or suit
- Smart casual: Wrap dress or blazer with chinos
- Relaxed casual: Trousers with blouse or dark jeans with button-down
Q: Can guests wear white to a courthouse wedding? A: No, women guests should never wear white so the couple remains the focus.
Q: How do I know if I’m overdressed as a guest? A: Check the invitation for dress code hints, visit the couple’s wedding website, consider the reception venue, or simply ask the couple directly.
Questions You Might Not Have Thought About
Q: Can I wear the same outfit to both the ceremony and reception? A: Yes! Choose versatile pieces that work for both. You can always add or remove accessories, a jacket, or change shoes between events.
Q: What about undergarments for courthouse weddings? A: Choose supportive, comfortable undergarments that won’t show through your outfit. Consider the season – seamless options work well under fitted clothing, and don’t forget appropriate undergarments for winter layering.
Q: Should I get my hair and makeup professionally done for a courthouse wedding? A: It’s entirely up to you! Many couples opt for professional services since photos will be taken, while others prefer a more natural look. Consider your budget and personal preference.
Q: Can I change outfits between the ceremony and reception? A: Absolutely! Some couples wear more formal attire for the ceremony and change into something more comfortable or party-appropriate for the reception.
Q: What about jewelry – should it be minimal or can I go bold? A: Both work depending on your style theme. Chic & Elegant calls for delicate jewelry, while Artistic & Bohemian embraces layered, natural pieces. Match your jewelry to your overall aesthetic.
Q: Are there any legal restrictions on what I can wear to a courthouse wedding? A: Generally no, but dress respectfully for a government building. Some courthouses may have specific dress codes (like no shorts or tank tops), so call ahead if you’re unsure.
Q: What if my courthouse wedding outfit gets damaged right before the ceremony? A: Have a backup plan! Keep a simple alternative outfit ready, or choose pieces that are easy to replace locally. Consider the weather and transport method when making your selection.
Q: Can I wear my grandmother’s vintage dress to a courthouse wedding? A: Yes! Vintage pieces are perfect for courthouse weddings, especially if they fit the Vintage Romantic theme. Just ensure the dress is in good condition and fits properly.
Q: Should I consider the courthouse’s interior when choosing colors? A: While not essential, it can enhance photos. Most courthouses have neutral interiors, so most colors photograph well. Avoid patterns that might clash with architectural details if photos are important to you.
Q: What about plus-size options for courthouse weddings? A: All the same style principles apply! Look for well-fitted pieces that make you feel confident. Many of the recommended shops (like Torrid) specialize in plus-size formal wear.
Shopping & Budget
Q: How much should I budget for a courthouse wedding outfit? A: Ready-to-wear options can range from $100-$1000+, while custom pieces cost $900-$5000+ and take 2-8 weeks. Consider your overall wedding budget and timeline.
Q: Can I rent my courthouse wedding outfit? A: Yes! Companies like Rent the Runway and Janet Mandell offer rental options, which can be perfect for courthouse weddings where you want something special but may not wear it again.
Q: How far in advance should I shop for my courthouse wedding outfit? A: For ready-to-wear: 2-4 weeks allows time for alterations. For custom pieces: 4-6 months for dresses, 2-8 weeks for suits. Always allow extra time for alterations.
Q: What if I can’t find what I want locally in Rochester? A: Consider shopping in the Twin Cities (more options at Mall of America, Nordstrom Rack) or online. Many designers offer courthouse-specific collections, and ethical brands like Reformation and Everlane provide stylish options.
11. The Quiz to help you decide
12. Conclusion: Ready to get married? You need a photographer!
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At French-Touch-Photography, I specialize in courthouse ceremonies and know exactly how to frame each vow, smile, and candid glance against the courthouse’s unique backdrop.
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