
How to properly coordinate your clothes
How to Coordinate Outfits for your Summer Engagement Pictures in Minnesota
Before having your twin cities ceremony captured by your talented photographer, you want to feel at ease in front of his camera. Good news, all our packages include a photo session before your wedding! So now, the only concern you should have is where to go and which outfit to choose.
I have already written several articles for the locations that you can easily find on the FAQ, with plenty of recommendations. That’s why the subject of this article will mostly focus on the second question. What ensemble should you and your fiancé wear to have great pictures?
Indeed, clothes are highly important. You could be the most beautiful couple in the world, with a sublime location and great natural light. But if you are dressing like clowns, then your pictures will probably be a disaster. You don’t want that, me neither, here is a bunch of tips to use!

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Style
Most of the sessions allow you to wear two outfits, which is an opportunity for two different styles. Most people choose a casual and a formal.
The casual style (which should not be too relaxed) will help you to feel at ease, comfortable in your clothes; thus, it would be easier to express your emotions. Formal clothes are part of our everyday theatrical social play. It’s an opportunity to proudly dress, to show your respective personalities, and a great pretext to go shopping!
Your choice is only limited by your inspiration! The idea is clearly not to make a fashion show, but to put your best face forward.
For instance, this is a list of common styles and trends:
- chic
- elegant
- bohemian
- vintage (50s, 60s, 70s) or futuristic
- all kinds of fashion
- hippie cool
- rock&roll
- sexy
- ethnic or from a foreign country (for instance, the Parisienne)
The styles you want to avoid;
- Sportswear, baggy
- Tee-shirt
- Military-hunting
- Bad boys, punk
- Neglected
- Bigotry
- Vulgar
- Too much glitter (you are not a Christmas tree)
It’s important to keep in mind that every single element is composing your style. Also, don’t neglect anything, from your shoes to the top of your hat.

Material Maters
In Minnesota, when you hire a talented professional photographer to capture your ceremony memories, you expect him to do magic with his camera. And he will! But you can help him choose clothes made of noble materials instead of cheap synthetic imitations, which won’t reflect the light in the same way and thus will look cheap.
That also applies to wedding dresses! Indeed, a cheap $500 wedding dress is made of poor white materials, as you can see in the pictures.
Not only does it not look good, but it also carries a negative message.
So, whether it is for your big day or for your photo session, choose good material!
This includes paying attention to the weave and the knitting of your tissue.
- wool (Kashmir)
- wool pullover with large knit
- denim
- cotton
- Leather
- silk
- linen
- velvet
- fur

Patterns
Photographers are not big fans of patterns. Check out the engagement session of those two guys at the Conservatory in St Paul, Minnesota.
They had chosen shirts with patterns, but small ones.
You can find inspiration among hundreds of patterns available, from the simple ones to the more sophisticated ones. They are a good way to show your personalities, as long as they don’t attract attention.
In other words, you should avoid
- symbols, letters, or text
- faces (human or animal)
- pictures, drawings, logos
- high contrast patterns
- Patterns with too many colors
- animal patterns (zebra, leopard, etc.)

A variety of clothes for different Body shapes
Photographers would tell you that a great photo shoot with great portraits is the result of a good team, including vendors and the couple. For instance, this bride in her stretchy dress for her wedding at the courthouse was well advised. The dress fits her perfectly and highlights her silhouette.
You must pay attention to the fact that the clothes fit you well. Indeed, some clothes would fit some bodies better than others. You must try your clothes before your session, to make sure they are made for you, that they are not too long, too short, too stretchy or too baggy.
Colors
There are three parameters on which you can play to select your clothes’ colors:
- hue: it is the degree of color selected on a chromatic wheel
- saturation: from dull to plain color
- tone: from bright to dark
The choice of the color is actually determined by your skin tone, your location, the weather, your home, and, of course, your tastes. Let me explain how.

Background: Location and weather
Vendors such as your wedding coordinator would tell you that an outdoor location can look completely different depending on the weather!
For instance, in summer, the forest would look vivid green on a sunny day, with a blue sky. But on the contrary, it would look dull, a dark kaki on a rainy day. The first option would let you wear some saturated colors, while the second option would require muted tones.
That is to say, in photography, we want the subject to contrast with the background, so the viewer’s attention is directed to you. Nevertheless, a soft color contrast is enough.
In this consideration, avoid wearing the same color as your background (to avoid monochromatic pictures), and dress accordingly to your background.

Skin
That’s probably the most subtle part of this article, and it would require a full article. However, I will try to summarize the major principles.
Your skin tone and your hair color are the two elements you can’t change.
Skin Tone
When creating your style, you have to take into consideration the tone contrast. If your skin naturally presents a low contrast, then avoid high contrast clothes, and vice versa.
For instance, if you have pale white skin and blond hair, or a very dark brown skin and dark hair, then you present a low contrast. In consequence, you should avoid dressing in plain black for the first case (and prefer pastel tones), and in white in the second case (and prefer darker tones). You might also prefer a low tone contrast in your clothes.
If you are Caucasian with dark hair, or black with blond hair (pretty rare), then you present a high contrast. You can easily play with contrasted tone clothes.
Skin Color
Human skin tones go from very dark brown to almost plain white, including an infinite variation of the beiges. To schematize, I will reduce it to 5 skin colors.
You must choose the colors of your clothes accordingly to your skin tone.
- Very pale skin
Prefer pastel colors. Avoid green, blue, white, and black. - Caucasian Skin
Prefer red and blue colors. You can wear bright and dark tones. - Tan and Asian Skin Tones
Prefer orange, dark green, and purple. Avoid red, bright blue, and pure white. - Brown Skin
Prefer red, blue, green, and purple. Avoid pastel and pure white. - Dark Brown Skin
Prefer purple, dark green, blue, red, orange, and saturated colors. Avoid pure white and pure black.

Colors Coordination
Now that you know what color fits you, try to coordinate your colors with your fiancé instead of matching.
Keep in mind that a simple add-on (shoes, belt, jewels, etc.) or a pattern can add just the right amount of color needed.
Neutral tones are the secret!
All the variations between white and black, and between dark brown and bright beige, are considered neutral tones. Some include muted dark blue (marine), and muted dark green (kaki).
These colors are considered neutral and complement your favorite color.
How many colors
Make it simple, one or two colors combined with neutral colors are usually enough. You can go up to three, but no further.
Families
The same rule applies to the family photos. Do not match each other (you are not a football team, nor a company), but coordinate. Simple props can give you the touch that reminds of he main color.
Which magic combination works all the time?
The following combination works great together. I suggest using only one plain color, and the other ones muted.
Red, Blue, and Yellow
Those are the most popular. They are called the primary colors.
Green, orange, and purple
Those are also popular, a bit less flashy, and are called the secondary colors.

Hair and makeup to produce excitement
Whether it is for an engagement session in St Paul Minnesota, or a wedding out of the cities, the details make the difference when it comes to portraits, and should not be neglected. I can do a lot of magic, but first of all, I need you to be good-looking!
When you look at the mirror, you must feel confident and proud of your look.
Appointment at your hair stylist
I would recommend having your hair cut one week before the photo session, so your cut would still be fresh, and your hair would have time to recover their natural orientation.
Use accessories that reflect your personality.
When you invest in a professional photographer service for high-end photography, you should provide yourself with the props to achieve your goal. Props are the extra things that can enhance your look by offering your hands something to handle during the photo session.
Indeed, most couples don’t know what to do and must be directed. Having a hat and a scarf could help you in posing.
So, here is a list of what you can put on and bring to play with:
- hat
- scarf
- belt
- bag (purse works)
- straps
- shoelaces
- tights
- gloves
- socks
Jewelry
They are part of your look. Gold and copper would be used as warm colors, while silver and platinum would be used as cold colors.
Pay attention to ensure that all your jewelry (necklace, earrings, rings, watch) is well coordinated.
Comfortable shoes for your feet
Shoes are also important and can completely change a look. Women know that well, and that’s why they have so many pairs!
That being said, keep in mind that we will walk a lot. I need you to be comfortable when walking.
Last Tips for Better Portraits in Minnesota
Most of the engagement sessions take place in summer (the best month). In contrast to a surprise proposal, where you can’t really select the best clothes, a scheduled photo session allows you to take care of each detail carefully. Thus, I highly invite you to follow these common recommendations to increase the quality of your photos!
- Avoid old clothes
- Avoid new clothes that haven’t been washed (it creates wrinkles)
- Avoid fluorescent colors
- Avoid too much spray in your hair, we want it natural (schedule an appointment with your hair stylist if it’s needed)
- My favorite long dress is made of light material that catches the wind. A leg opening is a must.
- Pay attention to your shoes!
- Pay attention to your tan (no mark, no sunburn)
- Pay attention to your nails
- Put on some bug repellent (the North State is famous for its warm summers with mosquitoes).
Examples:
Better than a long text, here are some typical examples of coordination that any coordinator would recommend for couples and families.








Conclusion on your one lifetime photo session
It’s probably the only time in your life that you will have to spend several hours with a top photographer. It’s an opportunity to have great memories before you become husband and wife. So you must do your homework and give yourself all the chances. In photography, a small detail can ruin a picture!
For instance, a nice suit with sports shoes won’t look good. A wife with a nice dress but messy hair would be a disaster. You don’t want that!
So, I will do my best, and now it’s your turn to prepare our session!