Locations for Elopement and small intimate ceremony in MN

There are multiple reasons for a couple to decide for an intimate ceremony, and the result can be nothing but amazing. It can be a personal taste, a legal duty, or a hygienic measures that restrain you from doing a large event (think covid-19 for instance).

If your wedding has been canceled or postponed, I am sorry. I know how much work it is to plan everything and how frustrating it is to see all your dreams go away (at least for a few months).
Anyway, now you need a location to get married, for an elopement of a small ceremony.

There is also different level of intimacy; from a small group of 20 guests (inner circle of family + best friends), to a small group of 10, and no guests at all (called an elopement).

Of course you could rent a very beautiful and expensive wedding venue which would work great for pictures. But it might not make sense from an economic point of view. What’s more, many couples voluntarily decide to have a small wedding in order to save money.

So here, we will focus on free or (affordable) locations to host an intimate or elopement ceremony.

Before jumping in a new planning process…

Keep in mind that a wedding is about you, your beloved, and an engagement for life. Emotions, more than a backdrop, are what photographers use to take good pictures.
In a way, small, intimate ceremonies help to reconnect with the core of what a wedding is really about!
So, focus on what really matters: your ceremony, your vows (if you exchange some), your guests (if you have a few members of your family), and most of all, to enjoy!

What parameters to take into consideration in the choice of the location (to have nice pictures)

Disclaimer: Most of those places can also work for engagement sessions. Nevertheless, for engagement sessions, we prefer locations offering a multitude of options, while here, we are just looking for one good point of view.

Season

Landscape is dramatically impacted by the seasons. For instance, fall colors in the tree can turn an ordinary wood into a wonderland. In consequence, if you know that a location is more beautiful during one specific month of the year, you might want to wait this month.

Sun

Sun can completely change the aspect of a location. As you probably know, the time of day offering the better light is or early in the morning or late in the afternoon (just before sunset).
But that’s not all; photographers need the sun to come from the officiant’s back, or from the guests’ back (if there is any).

The first solution is the best one for portraits, allowing some artistic effect with sun rays.
The second solution is the best if you have an amazing background that you want perfectly lightened.
In consequence, you might schedule your ceremony time regarding the sun position.

Enough Space for Your Photographer

Photographers would appreciate it if there is enough room to turn around the bride, the groom, and other people. If you get married on the top of the bluff, near water, or in front of a wall, then always leave some space so your photographer can pass behind you and catch different points of view.

Wild Nature and preserved sceneries

Contrary to some state that offers amazing landscapes (such as Colorado State), The 10,000 States is not especially famous for the beauty of its landscapes (except maybe the winter landscape).

But don’t worry, there are some options!

Check the regional park and state park. If you are brave, why not choose a national park and go to the Boundary Waters?

First with 10,000 Lakes and a bunch of rivers, you might find a few ones that you like and that can actually be used.
Why not stand on the shore of a river or on a dock during the sunset time? For instance, take advantage of a rocky beach on the superior lake (if you are ready to drive a bit). Closer, think of all the beach on the Mississippi River and the St Croix River.

Speaking of rivers and lakes, you don’t have to say on the shore.

Hills covered by meadows would work perfectly. Nevertheless, you would then reserve them for a fall event when the high grass starts to dry and turn yellow.
And, if the location is yours (or your grandpa), you can play with your lawnmower, delimiting a clean alley and area to stand.

Most regional and state parks have some wild areas with high grass that would work great!

Dense woodlands are usually not suitable for pictures. Not only are the viewer’s eyes obstructed, but they are also distracted by close vegetation. 

Conversely, some scattered forests with tall trees can be nothing but just majestic. Let’s think of the Sequoia National Forest, for instance. Closer to us, let’s think to pine forest. When the trees are big and tall enough, they allow the light to enter and an open view of the open understory.

You might know a few spots near the cities that have some nice pines area. To find some pines forest, you would need to drive up north, beyond Duluth, or think to old pines farms.

When we mention astonishing points of view, we often think of mountains & hills.
Luckily, contrary to Iowa, the North Star State is not completely flat. Indeed, it features some hills and even some mountains.

If miles are not an issue for you, then drive north above Duluth to find some pine forest and a panoramic view of the lake.

If you don’t want to go so far, you could just try Taylors Falls (which is one of our favorite locations).

Finally, if you prefer to stay local, think of parks that offer ski service (such as Theodore Wirth Park or Hyland Hills in Bloomington). Indeed, such a park usually offers a panoramic point of view of the adjacent hills and or city.

Some trees are nothing but impressive. That’s especially applied to century-old oak trees standing in the middle of a lawn.

Choose one whose foliage goes relatively close to the ground, and pick a time when the sun comes from behind the tree.

Nice falls, such as the Goosberry falls (north Duluth) can work great. The fall needs to be tall enough to be impressive.

And you would need to be far enough of the falls so we can frame as an element of big background. Indeed, if it’s just water falling in a chaotic way, it might just be “messy” or distracting.

Thus, please forget the Hidden Falls, or the Novelty Falls. They can work for a few engagement pics, but not a ceremony.

Not wild nature

A little stone bridge, a charming wood bridge, or even a dock can be a romantic location. You can be standing on it, or include it in the background.

You can find them in a lot of location (including public park, houses gardens).

Do you need them? No.

Would they work fine for pictures? If they are well designed, surely, but they are clearly not mandatory.
Sometimes, they bring something more “official” to your rituals. Some religions even include them if the official ritual (for instance: Jewish use a “chuppah”).

In other circumstances, their main purpose is to decorate a place that presents a deep lack of soul (public park, garden).
That being said, when they are well made, the result is usually pleasant and photogenic.

It won’t make an exhausting list of all the parks that offer such gazebo or pergola.

A nice arch can turn a regular (dull) place into an inspiring location. For instance, take a simple river shore, add an arch, you have a wedding venue! That’s what Leopold Mississippi Gardens did, for instance.

They really reveal all their potential in 2 circumstances by framing the couple, helping them to pop out of the backdrop:

• A flat field: they bring some material in the blue sky, helping the couple to contrast with an empty sky. 
• In front of a wall (such as a brick wall).

Can or should you make one yourself? If you are a handy creative woman (or man), or if your best friend is a florist, and you then you might consider building one yourself. They are usually made of wood or copper, but there is no rule. It’s pretty simple, but required time and, of course, a bunch of flowers.

One advice if you’re starting your own project; think transportation and sun-proof flowers.

Of course, beautiful gardens, the result of a landscaper’s hard work, is usually perfect for photos. Big and beautiful parks have understood that and usually offer wedding services in exchange for money.

And that’s also what has understood wedding venues that don’t have any sublime historic house to offer and don’t have any astonishing natural place for ceremonies.

Thus they created gardens instead! And that’s a smart thing, because nature is always beautiful!

Let think of:

Wood barns and farms are photogenic. But it’s true that a lot of barns are now offering wedding services at a cost.

If you don’t need any reception, you might just use a piece of lawn with a nice tree.

That applies for farms and ranches. Animals are always fun in photography.

If they don’t offer event’s service, feel free to call them and ask them if it’s possible to rent/use a piece of the field for one hour. I am sure that I you are polite they would be pleased to help you.

Check at Nat & Steph’s wedding at the Barn.

Some vineyards and orchards offer restoration services and, in consequence, have developed an entire event alongside their primary business.

Other locations focus only on the core of their production.
But both usually offer a nice background for pictures.

You would probably prefer old locations that have tall trees and tall vines and avoid young fields with small trees.

Check at this amazing wedding at the Four Daughters.

If you just need a clean lawn and a nice view of the city, find here two parks that should please you.
Let’s think of famous parks such:

As a result, the biggest house (manor mansion) is the most expensive wedding venue. Given we focus on intimate weddings, we won’t list them here.

But let’s take into consideration all the “forgotten” but “remarkable” constructions and heritage of history. It could be a nice wood home, a building, a simple cabin or even little log house.

For the charming little home, Airbnb will be your best friend. For instance, look for Bed and Break first house in Victorian style.

You can check at Emily and Darren, who used two Victorian Houses during their wedding day in Lanesboro.

• The Landing — Minnesota River Heritage Park
• Gammelgarden Museum
• Gibbs Farm

Post-industrial installations and machines are photogenic. That’s why you can choose a disaffected building or another post-industrial installation. Why not use a train station, for instance?

Let’s go deeper. You could rent a vintage locomotive or a vintage bus.

• Red Wing Station
• Minnehaha Depot
• Como Harriet Streetcar Line

Most couples forget that they can get married at the Courthouse.

That’s probably because modern courthouses in the little towns are usually harmless. But did you know that Saint Paul Courthouse and Minneapolis are two photogenic locations?

They would just work great for a mini-ceremony! What’s more they are located in the center of the town, which means you can go to a restaurant after that.
Check at Sam & Ben courthouse wedding in St Paul.

Restaurants are closed by the Stay-at-home Order during the Covid-19 pendemic.

Most people having an intimate ceremony with their immediate family members would go to a restaurant after that.

Some restaurant has a garden, rooftops, or an immediate park to accommodate a small celebration. Otherwise, for indoor rituals, it’s quite easy to move some tables and set up a ceremony spot.

One Obvious advantage compared to outdoor spots is that they are covered locations.

We won’t make a long list of restaurants here (you can find plenty on the web). Let just list a few restaurants where we have been and which are charming:

Rooftops are one of our favorite places to shoot pictures and can also be a perfect location for a ceremony. Nevertheless, all rooftops are not equal and don’t offer the same quality.

Check for our entire article on rooftop to lean more.

Add Something More

If elopement means bare necessities for you, then you can stop here.
Conversely, if you want to add extra glitter to this moment, here is a list of things that are easy to set up.

Before the ceremony:

• music: bring a portable speaker on batteries.
• Alley: you can easily create a rose petal alley.
• Or if you are brave, roll out a red carpet!
• Smokes bomb alley: Some would even light a few smoke bombs on the grounds.

During the ceremony:

• Alternative ritual: If you want to make it different, you can add an alternative ceremony. Check on the internet; there are tons of ideas (sand, ribbons, etc.).
• Candles: if you are planning to get married at sunset, you can light one hundred candles in your background.

After the ceremony:

• If you have some guests, they might have fun throwing a few petals on you, or rice, or even soap bubbles.
• Sparklers: If your ceremony ends at dusk, you can have fun with sparklers.

Think out of the Box

Finally, you can also be creative and use the opportunity for a kind of ceremony that won’t be possible otherwise!

The options are endless. You can include them or hobby that you like.

• get married on board of an air balloon
• make it official at small airport, in a marina, or why not in front of your job (if you really like it)
• travel to national parks or to other cities in the world —as far as it’s permitted— (such as Paris)
• tie the knot under the water
• get married standing on a canoe, paddle boat